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[Princess]

If you have any questions to ask, in general, then go ahead. Any dilemmas?
Anything on your mind you finding difficult to deal with??
I will try my best to solve the problems or explain the situations.
Questions can be related to health, family situations or life in general.
I do not guarantee solutions as the decision will be only yours to make.

[Killer_Academy]

hmm k princess ...................
1st one frm me ........... :D

temme wht to do if u feel like kicking someones @zzz but cant do it coz others mite get hurt too .... but neways u dont care abt it but still u cant .... can u temme whts the prob . ad how can i do it ??

[Princess]

You have the solution to the problem itself. I don't see any problem here at all because you have answered your question yourself.

[suhani]

I Still Didn't Get a Reply For This..

A husband Having A second Wife.. Why do Women Fear That Having a second Wife Means The end of Their relationship with Their husband... ???

[Princess]

This happens in case of insecurity. If a woman is insecure then she may feel that her husband ( ex) may completely forget about her and this is worse if there are children from the first marriage.
Most often it has been noticed that if the separation was mutual, the two will have a good relationship and often remain friends.

But then a woman should realise that having an end to their marriage also means that there is another woman in the husband's life and she is now who is the friend and his partner.
Often it is because the wife feels that he is her property and she should come first in his life but this may not be the case depending on why their marriage broke up!!

The woman has to realise that their marriage is over and that life goes on!! But if here are children, the two will always be bonded together

[suhani]

Wow... excellent reply....!!
But i don't Know why I wud luv my husband to have a second Wife.. !!
I know its strange but...... I wud want that.. :)


Does Love Mariages last long Than Arranged..,if Yeah WHy..wats The Reason behind That..??

[Killer_Academy]

Wow... excellent reply....!!
But i don't Know why I wud luv my husband to have a second Wife.. !!
I know its strange but...... I wud want that.. :)


Does Love Mariages last long Than Arranged..,if Yeah WHy..wats The Reason behind That..??



hi suhani .. i dont knwo wht i am saying is true or not .. but i dont think ne of the marriages survives longer enuf if the trust is not there ......

sb kuch vishwas pe hota hain .. agar woh gaya toh sab kuch gaya .. shaadi toh sab karte hai use nibhaana aana cahiye .. bhale hi woh luv marriage ho ya arranged koi farak nahi padta hain ....

rite princess ??

[Princess]

Wow... excellent reply....!!
But i don't Know why I wud luv my husband to have a second Wife.. !!
I know its strange but...... I wud want that.. :)


I assume by that statement that you are talking about Polygamy where a husband can have more than one wife. In this case it will all depend on the wives. The second wife may feel that the first wife will always have the first place in his heart and the first wife will think he doesn't love her enough that's why he married again.
Both wives will feel insecure in this kind of marriage.
I can imagine why you would love your husband to have a second wife.... maybe you are a challenging sort of person who will love to compete for his love. Good on you!! Maybe the idea appeals to you.

[Princess]

Does Love Mariages last long Than Arranged..,if Yeah WHy..wats The Reason behind That..??

hi suhani .. i dont knwo wht i am saying is true or not .. but i dont think ne of the marriages survives longer enuf if the trust is not there ......

sb kuch vishwas pe hota hain .. agar woh gaya toh sab kuch gaya .. shaadi toh sab karte hai use nibhaana aana cahiye .. bhale hi woh luv marriage ho ya arranged koi farak nahi padta hain ....

rite princess ??

In a way you are correct Killer. But it is not only trust that makes a marriage survive. It has to be the commitment one makes.

Whether love marriage lasts longer or arranged marriage? It all depends on the culture.. the person's thoughts. Some people believe in love after marriage and such marriages have lasted. Some believe in love before marriage but then it is easier to fall out of such a love if there is no commitment.
A committed couple will make a marriage last no matter what. But if there is no commitment, a person will end up changing partners like changing clothes.

Trust does have an influence but it's the relationship between the couple that influences the marriage.
In both cases, there have been lots of divorces. So I suppose it is on the couple to make a marriage last.
It is really important to think whether you are ready for such a commitment before saying yes to marriage!!

[suhani]

Thanx for The reply Killer n Princess..!! :)



A person is married within one month,but doesn't know Abt The Husband Properly..
They Get Married.. N Then she Finds out That He's Not Proper... He's Behavior Is completly diferent Than what he was before marriage.. Then The Wife Opts for a Divorce.... But unfortunatly A child is concieved Fom That Marriage.. She Doesn't Tell anyone abt the child..After divorce.. She aborts the child... Was That Proper Or She Shudn't Have Done It.. ??

[Princess]

You didn't say how the man was "improper". And why did thy marry in such a rush?It would have had an efect on my reply.
As for the baby, the woman must have thought a lot before making a decision to abort the child. It must have been a big and hurting decision for her.
In a way she thought that by not letting the child come into the world, she has helped him from all those rashful comments.
But more so she has actually thought of herself. Why would anyone marry someone in such a short time if not for convenience only? And why consumate such a marriage?
Divorce was ok. But to me, taking the life of the child was not a great idea. I bet she must have done it because she was in such a position, as any woman would, and later regret it.
As for whether her action was proper or not, no one can say for her because no one really knows what she went through. Of course morally it is not proper but then a lot of things are done in today's world which is not "proper". So who are we to judge her.

[puneet narang]

hi am puneet i dnt who you are,,jss saw tht pples asking questions frm u,,,so am doing the same,,but are u also a member of this site or wht,,,,,,,,,but actually i saw ur details saying princess,,,from my girl friends ( my wife ) mail she sent to me actually she sent me a song suno piya suno suno piya,,,,& tht ws copy & pasted & in tht song ther ws a link & whn i clicked on tht so it appers tht smone askd u to translate tht in english tht might be my wife,,,,i lost her am trying to find her,,& through tht i reach at ths site,,earlier i ws thinking tht she is ur friend thts why she asked u to translate & all,,,her name in smthing else,,,but she might be using tht by name of priya, & might be using any other name,,,she is in hooland,,amsterdam,,am sorry if i said any wrong thing,, i dont knw how shud i find her,,,,,i love her a lot ,,, jss living for her only,,,,if u know thn please tell her to contact me,,am dieng wdout her,,,oh god help me pls

[Princess]

If you could kindly send me the link or your wife's details I might know who it is that you are talking about Puneet. Right now it doesn't click to me. Can you please send me the link to the song that was translated... and I willl help you to the best of my ability.
Maybe someone will be able to help you. God help the two of you. PM me the link if you want. You don't have to post it here
All the best.

[nadirshaik]

Hi madhu
i want details of a song
where i need to post it

[Princess]

Hi madhu
i want details of a song
where i need to post it

:) You request for it in the first section "HINDI LYRICS" ... on the home page..just open a new topic please

[p u r n i m a]

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This is what my control panel shows,now tell me how to remove this option ?

[risky]

purnima this for that coz tum itenai deen nahi aayee na or aab avtar ke setting bhi naraz hue ke plz purnima parivar se door na raha karoo :p

[p u r n i m a]

purnima this for that coz tum itenai deen nahi aayee na or aab avtar ke setting bhi naraz hue ke plz purnima parivar se door na raha karoo :p

Plz also tell me, that how long I have to register my presence in the forum , to disable this option ?
1 week ?
1 month ?
1 year ?
1 decade ?
1 century ?

[just kidding :clap: ]

[p u r n i m a]

do not use avatar.

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This is what my control panel shows,now tell me how to remove this option ?

YET WAITING TO SEE, POSITIVE OUT COME OF MY PROBLEM.

[Princess]

I am sorry Purnima, I had not seen this request... just going to solve it.

[p u r n i m a]

u have solved the problem, Thanks,

[priya]

hi there princess...

wat are the best break up hindi songs?? I'm about to part from sum1...

[Princess]

hi there princess...

wat are the best break up hindi songs?? I'm about to part from sum1...

Parting from someone is not a pleasure. If you ae looking for sad songs there are too many from various movies and albums.

It all depends also on the reason of separation.

I would NEVER wish it on anyone so I find it really difficult and heartbreaking to suggest songs here.
Sorry...Hope the two of you work things out instead of taking the heartbreaking step.

All the best.
Princess

[priya]

hiya princess....parting unfortunaly has to happen...2 different faiths..is basically the reason why...it comes down to religion and politics at the end of the day..? which sucks big time..!

[Princess]

hiya princess....parting unfortunaly has to happen...2 different faiths..is basically the reason why...it comes down to religion and politics at the end of the day..? which sucks big time..!

I do not agree with you at all. Religion is no excuse to break up a relationship. If love is genuine and true there are no obstacles, no barrier in it.
Faith does not come from any religion...It is what you believe in - as an individual. Ask yourself if you believe in your love. If not then this is the right time to opt out of it before someone gets hurt.

[priya]

I may have worded that slightly wrong..ur rite its no excuse at the end of the day..its the love between the 2 ppl that matter...however you also hav 2 look at the bigga picture..things like this always cause conflict..and certain familiy members will be unhappy with the alliance...we have tried to keep every1 happy but at the end of the day he looses out on his family...so they would disown him..& although totally unfair...i need to think about him also..& much as we really want this..I wouldnt let him sacrifice his family cos they are just as important..!

so atm things are just up in the air..as were both kinda unsure where to progress from here ??? all the pieces seem to be coming 2geva..& then sumthing crops up??? I guess if its ment to be then things will work their way out????

ths is sumthing ive seen in a bollywood movie, hardly expected myself to be in this situation...and its no way easy.....!!!!

[Princess]

so they would disown him..& although totally unfair...i need to think about him also..& much as we really want this..I wouldnt let him sacrifice his family cos they are just as important..!

I can see that its the family's happiness you are thinking about here. I know you are sacrificing your happiness for his family..and this is a great gesture on your part. But don't you think if the family loved him and cared for him so much, they would also think of his happiness?? And what about sacrifice on his side??

Moreover, there are more unhappy people here now.

On the other hand, I can see you have already given up hope. There are ways to make this work. If you have tried them all, then I am sorry for your failure but I have a feeling things could work out better for all of you.

Hope all is well and you make/made a good decision!!

[~Romantic~]

Q: Din ke baad Raat aur Raat ke baad fir Din kyu nikalta hai ?

[Princess]

So that people like can rest and have the energy to do the work

warna you would have asked "why is it always dark?"
but then you would not have even known the difference between light and dark... strange, isn't it?